{"id":31013,"date":"2018-05-24T22:08:58","date_gmt":"2018-05-25T06:08:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.sparselysageandtimely.com\/blog\/?p=31013"},"modified":"2023-12-18T19:24:32","modified_gmt":"2023-12-19T03:24:32","slug":"get-me-to-the-county-clerk-on-time","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sparselysageandtimely.com\/?p=31013","title":{"rendered":"Get me to the county clerk on time"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>A great believer in marriage<\/strong>, I got married for the fifth time on April 26. My bride is my longtime partner\/girlfriend Lynn Axelrod, known to many in town as the coordinator of the Point Reyes Disaster Council. As such, she works with the county fire department. She&#8217;s 68 and from New York and Boston. For many years, she worked as an attorney in San Francisco. I&#8217;m 74 and from the San Francisco Bay Area. I worked in journalism for most of my adult life.<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-31014\" src=\"https:\/\/sparselysageandtimely.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/DSC_0050-500x303.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"303\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sparselysageandtimely.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/DSC_0050-500x303.jpg 500w, https:\/\/sparselysageandtimely.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/DSC_0050-200x121.jpg 200w, https:\/\/sparselysageandtimely.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/DSC_0050-768x465.jpg 768w, https:\/\/sparselysageandtimely.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/DSC_0050-1000x606.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/sparselysageandtimely.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/DSC_0050-150x91.jpg 150w, https:\/\/sparselysageandtimely.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/DSC_0050.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Our wedding was in the bluff-top garden beside the 3rd floor of Marin County Civic Center. (<em>Photo by Kathy Runnion<\/em>)<\/p>\n<p>The garden is right outside the County Clerk&#8217;s Office, and conducting the ceremony was (at center) Olga Lobato, a supervisor in the Clerk&#8217;s office.<\/p>\n<p>The office&#8217;s wedding schedule is a busy one. We had to settle for getting married on a Thursday because Friday was booked up well in advance.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-31016\" src=\"https:\/\/sparselysageandtimely.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/DSC_0069-500x443.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"443\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sparselysageandtimely.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/DSC_0069-500x443.jpg 500w, https:\/\/sparselysageandtimely.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/DSC_0069-200x177.jpg 200w, https:\/\/sparselysageandtimely.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/DSC_0069-768x680.jpg 768w, https:\/\/sparselysageandtimely.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/DSC_0069-1000x886.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/sparselysageandtimely.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/DSC_0069-150x133.jpg 150w, https:\/\/sparselysageandtimely.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/DSC_0069.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I now pronounce you husband and wife,&#8221; supervisor Lobato told Lynn and me with a flourish. (<em>Photo by Kathy Runnion<\/em>)<\/p>\n<p>Acting as official witnesses were Tony Ragona of Point Reyes Station and Paul Kaufman of San Rafael (formerly of Marshall).<\/p>\n<p>I must say being married is fun although it&#8217;s had some prickly moments. For the past three weeks, I&#8217;ve been digging up, pulling up, and cutting up thistles in the fields around Mitchell cabin.<\/p>\n<p>Now that&#8217;s not fun.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-31024\" src=\"https:\/\/sparselysageandtimely.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/DSC_0096-500x333.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sparselysageandtimely.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/DSC_0096-500x333.jpg 500w, https:\/\/sparselysageandtimely.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/DSC_0096-200x133.jpg 200w, https:\/\/sparselysageandtimely.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/DSC_0096-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/sparselysageandtimely.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/DSC_0096-1000x667.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/sparselysageandtimely.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/DSC_0096-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/sparselysageandtimely.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/DSC_0096.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The night after the wedding we headed down to Sausalito&#8217;s No Name Bar for our weekly ration of jazz, which is inevitably fun.<\/p>\n<p>Inside the bar, the bride spotted one of the regulars, the prominent Sausalito artist Steve Sara, sketching her as she listened to the music. Obligingly she moved a bit closer to his sketchpad and was rewarded with an attractive drawing.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A great believer in marriage, I got married for the fifth time on April 26. My bride is my longtime partner\/girlfriend Lynn Axelrod, known to many in town as the coordinator of the Point Reyes Disaster Council. As such, she works with the county fire department. She&#8217;s 68 and from New York and Boston. 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